Have you ever wanted to edit and unsend messages in iOS? Like when you texted your mom “Finally got laid today” when you meant to say “paid.”

Thankfully, with iOS 16 and Apple’s other upcoming OS upgrades, you can edit and unsend iMessages. Let me show you how this feature works.

Edit and unsend messages

Potentially embarrassing or career-ending texts aside, there are plenty of reasons you might want to edit or unsend messages. For one thing, you don’t text everyone the same way. I text my (amazing and lovely) wife quickly and haphazardly. I text everyone over the age of 40 in complete sentences, with proper punctuation.

Even the societal rules for when to end a text with a period evoke convoluted psychology theories that could fill an entire college lecture.

If you’re texting, mistakes will be made. And sometimes, you will desperately wish you could edit or unsend a message.

Only on iOS 16 and newer

To use these features, you (and the person you’re texting) need to install iOS 16. It is out now for the iPhone 8 and newer models. iPadOS 16 and macOS Ventura will be released sometime later in October.

Also, this feature is limited to iMessage. It won’t work with SMS text messages, even if they’re sent from the Messages app. (It also will not work with chats in other messaging apps like Facebook Messenger, Snapchat and RCS).

Edit a message after it’s sent

To edit a message in the Messages app on iPhone, tap and hold on it to show the context menu. Tap Edit to make your changes, then tap the checkmark to confirm them. Your message will be marked as edited for both you and the recipient.

Note that you can only edit a message within 15 minutes of sending it, and you can only edit a message up to five times. The recipient can also see the edit history by tapping the “Edited” indicator.

If you’re texting someone running iOS 15 or earlier, be careful — your phone will still let you edit your message, but the message will not show up edited on the other person’s phone. Instead, a second version of the message will be sent, identified with the label “Edited for.”

Unsend a message

Unsending a message works in a similar way. After sending an iMessage, tap and hold to show the context menu, then tap Undo Send. The other person will see that you’ve unsent a message, but they won’t be able to read what it said. This is in contrast to message edits, where the recipient can see the edit history.

That is, unless they’re running iOS 15 or earlier, as you are warned: “[The recipient] may still be able to see your message on devices running older versions of iOS.”

Unlike editing messages, you only have two minutes to unsend a message.

One more thing: Mark messages as unread (or read) in iOS 16

The Messages app is getting at least one more very useful feature in iOS 16: You can mark messages as unread, or the opposite.

If you open a text message but don’t have time to respond (and you want to make sure you don’t forget), swipe right on the conversation to mark it as unread. Note: This will not change the Read receipt for the other person — it just adds the unread notification for you.

This also works the other way. To mark a conversation as read, you don’t have to tap into it and go back. Just swipe to mark it as read.

To mark a pinned message as read or unread, tap and hold on it and select either Mark as Unread or Mark as Read from the context menu.

This article was originally published June 24. It has been updated with the release of iOS 16.